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     As the middle man suspected cheating spouse, there are several things they can do to prove it. According to the research team from Oakland University, USA, one sure way is to get the male partner for more sex.

     This conclusion was obtained after researchers observed 231 men who had a partner. All of them asked about the appeal of a couple, the level of satisfaction with the relationship, sexual habits, including a number of other questions that can provide accurate predictions related opportunities for cheating women.

     As a result, a growing number of answers that indicate participants cheating spouse then participants recorded more frequent sex, especially oral sex.

     Why? Based on information from researchers, the tongue can detect whether a man other men have also been working partner or not. "Moreover, if a man has a premonition that her partner had been turned away from him, his instincts will tell him to use his tongue detector," said one researcher, Michael Pham who studied evolutionary psychology of Oakland.

     "But of course it is not merely prove that the he is cheating on you. This is just a sign if you feel a greater threat due to 'sperm competition' with other men," he added as quoted menshealth, Saturday (19/1 / 2013).

In addition, there are three other symptoms that can be used to check whether the male partner having an affair or not, among other things:

     1. Making love 'deeper and stronger'
   
     According to a study from Florida Atlantic University, a man who believes if the spouse may have had affair would be more likely to have sexual performance 'deeper and stronger' during sex. Apparently this is the man's attempt to 'replace' the other man's sperm is in the body of his partner.

     2. Check whether the he often walks or not

     Women who are ovulating or fertile and actively looking for a partner, will be seen from the increasing intensity of them for a walk. Based on information from the UCLA researcher, allegedly increased mobility can increase the number of men to be dating her.

     3. Notice personality may 'trap'

     Personality as an open, intelligent and easy going woman possessed known to have links with a penchant for cheating. This was revealed by a study published in the journal Personality and Individual Differences.

     Classic problem experienced by couples during sex is difficulty reaching orgasm together. Often women have to fake an orgasm so he was happy. Yet this cohesiveness is important for the happiness of the household.

     Men sometimes feel embarrassed if you can not make it or reached her first orgasm. During orgasm, all muscles of the body, including the back and groin muscles will be stretched. In men usually accompanied by spending sperm or ejaculate. While in women is characterized by muscle squeezing vagina (vaginal spasm).

     In order to compact an orgasm, there are several things you can do as quoted from Women's health on Saturday (01/19/2013), namely:

• Start imagining in your head

     Hoping to reach orgasm actually increases the likelihood that expectations will occur. Similarly, according to the study conclusions Sexual Psychophysiology Lab at the University of Texas at Austin. This also applies when the pair both have imagined reaching orgasm together.

     Expectations play a role in sexual problems. Simply by observing couples erotic cues and make a romantic atmosphere like playing a song and add fragrances, sex couples can begin preparations to better deliver optimal results.

• Synchronization

     This phase begins with looking gesturing to each other before the bedroom by way of flirting. In women, it takes a long time to really excite lover.

     An orgasm a woman starts her head. Thoughts and feelings will send signals to the body's hormones which in turn increases blood flow to the vagina and make it more sensitive to sex.

• Longer foreplay

     Most men have an orgasm in a matter of minutes, whereas women do not. Therefore, ladies and foreplay takes longer to reach the pre orgasm, the time in which a woman would reach a climax.

     Women have sensitive points are scattered in several parts of his body, but the most sensitive is the clitoris. Stimulate the body can increase female arousal and increase the likelihood of orgasm.

• Extend and delay orgasm

     Men should learn to breath and stamina quickly so as not to reach orgasm. This of course takes time and experience with a partner. One way is to take his mind to something other than his passion. For example, concentrating on how the sensation in the muscles of his legs.

• Using cue

     Women usually chatty when making love. When going to reach orgasm, tell your partner to partner to know also. In essence, communication and openness between partners involved plays an important role in the relationship, including the relationship beds.

      Many men are reluctant to use condoms to prevent pregnancy by reason of uncomfortable and detract from the enjoyment. Some men prefer to do some techniques to prevent pregnancy, but the wrong technique actually increase the risk.

      Here are 9 common mistakes made by men to prevent pregnancy, as reported mensfitness, Thursday (17/01/2013), among others:

      1. Having sex while standing

     According to a study conducted in 2010, nearly 1 in 5 men believe that having sex standing up will not cause pregnancy in couples. Most people found that the law of gravity can prevent the sperm to fertilize the egg, so they no longer need a condom.

     But this is a great one, sperm can still get into the uterus, menmukan egg, and fertilization.

     2. Not carefully selected lubricants

     You need to make sure it has the right to choose the type and appropriate lubricants for condoms. Petroleum-based lubricants such as mineral oil or massage lotion can damage condoms and would reduce the effectiveness of condoms in preventing pregnancy.

     3. Your hands are too sweaty and condom use their teeth to open packaging

     Open a condom package with a knife or scissors can cause perforated condom if not careful. Likewise, if you use a condom tearing teeth, because his hands were too sweaty and slippery after foreplay.

      One study found that men who use the condoms unpacking gear, three times more likely to cause damage to the condom and fail to prevent pregnancy.

      4. Put a condom by not leaving space at the tip

     If you use a condom until the end, there will be no space to accommodate sperm. It is like when you close the faucet end of the flow by hand, where the water will be depressed and sprayed in all directions.

      Pressure has also been experienced by the sperm because space is minimal and may cause damage to the condom.

      5. Do not use condoms because the couple had been drinking birth control pills

      Birth control pills are effective at preventing pregnancy, but it does not hurt to always use a condom every time you have to watch when couples forget the pill. According to the Center for Disease Control and Prevention, the Pill 91-99 percent effective in preventing pregnancy but the protection would be more perfect if coupled with a condom.

      6. Using condoms that have long kept

      Hot or cold temperature extremes can even damage the latex in condoms, so you need to store it in a cool, dry place. Quality condoms can be reduced if stored too long. Do not use condoms that you have saved in a long time to get comprehensive protection.

      7. Not adding lubricant inside the condom

      If you are going to have sex marathon in one night, do not forget to add a small amount of lubricant to the condom. This prevents drying of the part in a more vulnerable torn condom because the friction force.

       Always use a lubricant on the condom to prevent damage and improve comfort. But remember, do not pour too much oil as it can make it slick and easy off during sex.

       8. Remove the condom before sex ends

      Too early removing condom during sex can increase the likelihood of spilling sperm and cause fertilization, according to a study published in The Journal of Sexual Health.

      Hold the base of the condom during withdrawal from the vagina to prevent loss of condoms and leaks.

       9. Removing sperm outside

       Some men think that pulling the penis out before ejaculation can prevent pregnancy. Ejaculation outside the vagina then went penetration does not guarantee it can avoid the risk of pregnancy, because there are still remnants of sperm in the penis that can fertilize an egg.

In certain circumstances a person sometimes to make a sound while making love. There are 4 reasons that make people sound when having sex with a partner.

The voice that comes when having sex quite diverse ranging from sighing, groaning, moaning, panting as she breathed rapidly until finally there was a scream as successfully achieving orgasm.

Studies on women's sexual behavior conducted by Alfred Kinsey revealed that appear sound when it reaches the point of orgasm usually accidental. Laboratory studies show women being able to resist the temptation to make a sound while making love.

Roy Levin, a biomedical scientist and sexologist reveals there are at least four reasons that make someone making noise during sex, as quoted from About.com, Friday (18/01/2013), namely:

1. For the information of
Knowingly or not, the sound that appears to be conveying information about what's going on, like what is preferred or not preferred, approaching orgasm or ejaculation, as well as different types of stimuli. The survey found the sound understanding of sex that appears to be an indication of the perceived sexual pleasure.

2. Increase sexual desire
The voice that emerged during sex are known to increase sexual desire, especially for men. In a survey involving 300 participants are known to enter voice male sex as one of the things that can increase sexual arousal.

As for women's voices emerge second in increase sexual arousal after touch. But for both men and women, they still love the sound that emerged during sex.

3. Increase pleasure
Some researchers have sound coming out due to the effects of the rapid breathing can enhance your enjoyment. When someone is passionate high and approaching orgasm the voice that comes up will further enhance enjoyment.

Quite often some people sometimes assume a slightly open mouth and breathing faster will bring sound to enhance the sexual experience and pleasure.

4. Facilitating system arousal
The researchers have shown that the sound appears to be related to muscle contractions associated with orgasm experience, because that sound is often referred to as a facilitator of the system of sex to reach orgasm.