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     Classic problem experienced by couples during sex is difficulty reaching orgasm together. Often women have to fake an orgasm so he was happy. Yet this cohesiveness is important for the happiness of the household.

     Men sometimes feel embarrassed if you can not make it or reached her first orgasm. During orgasm, all muscles of the body, including the back and groin muscles will be stretched. In men usually accompanied by spending sperm or ejaculate. While in women is characterized by muscle squeezing vagina (vaginal spasm).

     In order to compact an orgasm, there are several things you can do as quoted from Women's health on Saturday (01/19/2013), namely:

• Start imagining in your head

     Hoping to reach orgasm actually increases the likelihood that expectations will occur. Similarly, according to the study conclusions Sexual Psychophysiology Lab at the University of Texas at Austin. This also applies when the pair both have imagined reaching orgasm together.

     Expectations play a role in sexual problems. Simply by observing couples erotic cues and make a romantic atmosphere like playing a song and add fragrances, sex couples can begin preparations to better deliver optimal results.

• Synchronization

     This phase begins with looking gesturing to each other before the bedroom by way of flirting. In women, it takes a long time to really excite lover.

     An orgasm a woman starts her head. Thoughts and feelings will send signals to the body's hormones which in turn increases blood flow to the vagina and make it more sensitive to sex.

• Longer foreplay

     Most men have an orgasm in a matter of minutes, whereas women do not. Therefore, ladies and foreplay takes longer to reach the pre orgasm, the time in which a woman would reach a climax.

     Women have sensitive points are scattered in several parts of his body, but the most sensitive is the clitoris. Stimulate the body can increase female arousal and increase the likelihood of orgasm.

• Extend and delay orgasm

     Men should learn to breath and stamina quickly so as not to reach orgasm. This of course takes time and experience with a partner. One way is to take his mind to something other than his passion. For example, concentrating on how the sensation in the muscles of his legs.

• Using cue

     Women usually chatty when making love. When going to reach orgasm, tell your partner to partner to know also. In essence, communication and openness between partners involved plays an important role in the relationship, including the relationship beds.